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Money Dance?

Are you guys gonna have a money dance at the reception?

My gut screams, "Tacky! Poor taste!" when I think about it, but my head says, "If the guests don't think it's tacky, you're a fool for not jumping on the wagon..."

What are you guys planning to do?

Wow. I left to go Christmas shopping and came back to find all those comments! Eek!

First of all, I really wasn't intending to be inflammatory on any level. I truly apologize if my word choice offended anyone.

The tradition was something I'd never even heard of until my two wedding planner-type ladies mentioned it. They didn't indicate that it was any type of cultural thing. They actually said everyone does it and thought we'd be crazy not to.

Well, since I knew that my family a) had never included a money/dollar dance in their celebrations, and b) are also incredibly uptight about money, I figured I'd ask you folks how common it is and get a feel from there...

All I know is that it sounds like a tradition that my immediate family would prefer I opt out of - and the last thing I need from them is another fight about the wedding! I guess I'll just stick with my own family's tradition of treating money (and the taking thereof) as a very private, personal, taboo subject.


Dec. 16th, 2007 05:55 pm (UTC)
I'm not offended. I'm not On any one's side. I'm completely neutral... I just see the value in respecting everyone's ideas. And yes, use what ever "Ism" word you want it doesn't change my stance.

If she was raging against Latina brides being too loud (Which, I have no knowledge of this community so it's not a statement or anything) Then for you as a Latina chiming in and making a big fuss to her would probably make her believe her opinion even more.

Just as you are justified in your opinion (which I happen to agree with if you haven't picked that up) She is justified in her opinion. You can talk till you're blue in the face and some people are still going to dislike the Idea of a Money dance. I guarantee this topic wont come up for a while and then two months down the road this discussion will happen all over again.
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Dec. 16th, 2007 06:07 pm (UTC)
and I think you're missing my point.


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